or plain not interested!

Originally Posted by chakri

so many friends are seeing my profile, but nobody showing intrest in make me their friend. what is the reason? can u help me.

Maybe it has something to do with you being a 49 year old man, married with two children... think ok.

I posted a picture. I know why I dont get replies though. No one wants to know someone as fat and ugly as me.

Originally Posted by pothole

I posted a picture. I know why I dont get replies though. No one wants to know someone as fat and ugly as me.

Don't be silly pothole, there is someone for everyone in this world, we just have to find them. Good onya for posting a pic, a picture tells a thousand words and you never know when someone out there will view it and be able to tell you are the one for them.

Originally Posted by pothole

I posted a picture. I know why I dont get replies though. No one wants to know someone as fat and ugly as me.

That is a defetest attitude mate, you are NOT fat or ugly ok...

Positive attitude is everything, think well of yourself, and others will also...

Scorpio and cats...

Originally Posted by pothole

I posted a picture. I know why I dont get replies though. No one wants to know someone as fat and ugly as me.

so wat if ur on the chunky side jus means more for some1 to love! i dnt agree with ur definition of ugly tho! nothin wrong with u! ur pics posted thats the main idea aint it! do away with the - n give out the + so some1 can find u!

Ugliness as nothing to do with the physical but with who is inside the body.

Also accepting who we are and loving ourselves as a lot to with how people look at us

It is a fair comment made by everyone in regards to pics and the individual has the choice to or not. I would like to say that I have seen a lot of people on these sites that do not place pics, whether single or not. But a lot of them will supply a pic if you get to know them one on one and I believe that is their privilege also. Let us remember we are all allowed a choice. Assumptions should not be made, perhaps allowances at least.
Anyway, I enjoy being on this site and I have no problems with what others wish to do here, so long as I am given the same consideration ....

Anyway, aint freedom of speech a great thing .... lol

And please let not any rebuttals come along saying things like typical male etc etc .... Gets boring after a while ... lol

Keep enjoying people cos that what makes the world go round ....

Originally Posted by Bel_1977

I'm relatively new to this site but when I do a local search to see what is out there, I am amazed at how many guys don't bother to upload a photo of themselves!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not overly superficial but the way I see it is that in this envionrment, when there is very little to go on, a photo is a must to give yourself the best chance to be noticed!

Take a moment to snap a happy pic of yourself guys so that we can check you out!

yer i guess married men boppin around lookin for casual shaggyz is 1 waya makin the world go round or down!

not negative just realistic. but thanks for the kind comments