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Originally Posted by Cutebutbossy
It's the same basically everywhere Bel, some people are too ashamed to post a pic for fear that someone they know will see them on a dating site and some are hiding things like the fact they are married or heaven forbid cheating on a partner. I find it strange that people join a dating site but can't or won't upload a pic of themselves, Hello not many will go out of their way to meet someone if they have no idea what they look like. I know I won't!
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it is either that Bossy or they are scared that us females are so shallow that if they dont look like Brad Pitt or which ever other man is in fashion, that we cant be interested.
fellas this isnt the case, none of us are perfect, all of us male and female, dont like some aspect of ourselves.
I know the old arguement that "I want them to like me for me not my looks" have heard it many times and actually agree with it but humans are visual as well as imaginative and it is much easier imagining someone you have seen a photo of than a blank box on a computer screen
show yourselves, be seen, if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to lose
