HI kATZ, i HAVE BEEN TREATED TO A REALLY KING'S LUNCH (NOT DINNER). I HAVE BEEN MADE GOD, AS IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW.
AS IT IS, I AM A RESEARCHER AND THIS KIND OF EXPERIENCE HAPPENS TO COME IN HANDY.
VERY TANTALIZING AND OUT OF THE WORLD, WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED.
AND I THOUGHT, WOMEN IN INDIA ARE CONSERVATIVE AND INTROVERTS.
THAT WAS REALLY MY DAY. I WAS ON TOP OF THE WORLD.....

BABASAAB

Originally Posted by Katz Eyez

Hi guys

Have any of you been treated to a great night out, where you have been chosen to be picked up and asked what restaurant you would love to dine at?

To have a woman care for you in such a way that you feel like you're number one and have every detail sorted out for the whole night and not have to take charge?

And if so, how so?

If not, why not?

Katz

Originally Posted by Katz Eyez

Hi guys

Have any of you been treated to a great night out, where you have been chosen to be picked up and asked what restaurant you would love to dine at?

To have a woman care for you in such a way that you feel like you're number one and have every detail sorted out for the whole night and not have to take charge?

And if so, how so?

If not, why not?

Katz

Hey Katz,
Cant say that I have been treated that way, however I have had some bad experiences in that department, I am a modern woman who has been taught that it is important to work and strive to achieve what I want to do and that I shouldnt rely on anyone but me to get me where I want to go, on the other hand I have been taught to cook clean and treat my partner like gold, that it is important to make your partner feel loved and wanted and cherished, so I have tried in all my relationships to do just that. I cook, clean, do the laundry and ironing, mow the lawns, entertain and give excellent foot and back rubs and I work full time and study. I am loyal and attentive and you know what... I am still single and have had 4 serious relationships even though I have never once complained about no birthday wishes (let alone pressie) and the fact that anniversaries are seemingly unimportant to them or that on a nice summers day we are watching the cricket, motorsport and or tennis instead of being outside enjoying what the world has to offer. So I figure to hell with what I have been brought up to believe and practice, it must be time to change my ways!! Anyway thats all I have to say on that subject wish my experiences had been more positive but I cant say they have. lol Meggs

Hey Miss Megs

I am sorry you have not been appreciated for all the various aspects you have carefully cultivated over the years.

Honey it's obvious that you have been more than willing to give in every department...........and the guys you have chosen to share, have entered in the relationship, simply because they do not have to do a damn thing.

You set a standard they merely recognized as not having to 'own' any status....... cause you do it for them!

You have to decree, make firm affirmations in what you desire in a partner........not just focus on what you can do for him! Otherwise you will continue to attract those who are willing to go for the ride.

You have qualities, high morals, integrity and many more interests going for you.

Please read what you have typed in the above statement and then see if the guys you have chosen in the past, match any of your qualities.........I think not!

So you desire a person who has similar interests, compatability, compassion, unconditioanl love, persistance, drive/motivation, caring, loving, devotion, honesty, integrity, morals, empathy, emotional intellect and of high calibre.

After all these qualities I sense in you, are far worthy than the guys you have been baby sitting.

My dear Miss Megs you have already exceeded beyond your free spirited age and there will come a day, that special person will only be too pleased to reciprocate, the unconditional love n care you so deserve!

You just have to believe you are worth having one, of similar qualities.


Katz

Originally Posted by Miss Meggs

Hey Katz,
Cant say that I have been treated that way, however I have had some bad experiences in that department, I am a modern woman who has been taught that it is important to work and strive to achieve what I want to do and that I shouldnt rely on anyone but me to get me where I want to go, on the other hand I have been taught to cook clean and treat my partner like gold, that it is important to make your partner feel loved and wanted and cherished, so I have tried in all my relationships to do just that. I cook, clean, do the laundry and ironing, mow the lawns, entertain and give excellent foot and back rubs and I work full time and study. I am loyal and attentive and you know what... I am still single and have had 4 serious relationships even though I have never once complained about no birthday wishes (let alone pressie) and the fact that anniversaries are seemingly unimportant to them or that on a nice summers day we are watching the cricket, motorsport and or tennis instead of being outside enjoying what the world has to offer. So I figure to hell with what I have been brought up to believe and practice, it must be time to change my ways!! Anyway thats all I have to say on that subject wish my experiences had been more positive but I cant say they have. lol Meggs

If a guy can't remember the birthday of the woman he loves than there is a big problem, doesn't have to be big gestures every years but a well thought word or gift even if small is the least you can do for your love.

As for being treated, first I don't like the word treated I never treat I do something because I want to not because it is the norm (guy paying) I never see it like that nobody ever twisted my arm to do it it's because i want to. Only once could I say I have been "treated" was taken out to a show and coffee afterward didn't feel strange because she add told me in advance she wanted to take me out otherwise I always expect to pay my own.

Originally Posted by Katz Eyez

Hi guys

Have any of you been treated to a great night out, where you have been chosen to be picked up and asked what restaurant you would love to dine at?

To have a woman care for you in such a way that you feel like you're number one and have every detail sorted out for the whole night and not have to take charge?

And if so, how so?

If not, why not?

Katz

well it was a few years ago but it was a dream come true for myself this lady phone about a week before to tell me that she would be in town and i was to meet her at Jordans (a great seafood resturant in sydney) I arrived and was escorted to a table looking over the bay. opposite was this gift of a women, whom had preordered the most delightfull food we shared a bottle of white wine and water spoke deeply of many and vaired subjects I felt comfortable in some ways yet un comfortable in others we looked into each others eyes when we spoke and felt at ease that there was no hidden agenda to the lunch. once we had finished I was not allowed to even go for the leather this had being orgainised as well as a gift that I excepted with joy. we both walked out me with my arm around her shoulder it was such a nice feeling to have had lunch with my Mother the most beutifully soul living

Originally Posted by nelson1

well it was a few years ago but it was a dream come true for myself this lady phone about a week before to tell me that she would be in town and i was to meet her at Jordans (a great seafood resturant in sydney) I arrived and was escorted to a table looking over the bay. opposite was this gift of a women, whom had preordered the most delightfull food we shared a bottle of white wine and water spoke deeply of many and vaired subjects I felt comfortable in some ways yet un comfortable in others we looked into each others eyes when we spoke and felt at ease that there was no hidden agenda to the lunch. once we had finished I was not allowed to even go for the leather this had being orgainised as well as a gift that I excepted with joy. we both walked out me with my arm around her shoulder it was such a nice feeling to have had lunch with my Mother the most beutifully soul living

awww that is sooooo sweet

Originally Posted by nelson1

well it was a few years ago but it was a dream come true for myself this lady phone about a week before to tell me that she would be in town and i was to meet her at Jordans (a great seafood resturant in sydney) I arrived and was escorted to a table looking over the bay. opposite was this gift of a women, whom had preordered the most delightfull food we shared a bottle of white wine and water spoke deeply of many and vaired subjects I felt comfortable in some ways yet un comfortable in others we looked into each others eyes when we spoke and felt at ease that there was no hidden agenda to the lunch. once we had finished I was not allowed to even go for the leather this had being orgainised as well as a gift that I excepted with joy. we both walked out me with my arm around her shoulder it was such a nice feeling to have had lunch with my Mother the most beutifully soul living

Hello Nelson1

Tis a lovely moment between Mother and Son...........

Perhaps you'll be lucky enough to have another beautiful female spoil you some day soon!

Katz

Originally Posted by nelson1

well it was a few years ago but it was a dream come true for myself this lady phone about a week before to tell me that she would be in town and i was to meet her at Jordans (a great seafood resturant in sydney) I arrived and was escorted to a table looking over the bay. opposite was this gift of a women, whom had preordered the most delightfull food we shared a bottle of white wine and water spoke deeply of many and vaired subjects I felt comfortable in some ways yet un comfortable in others we looked into each others eyes when we spoke and felt at ease that there was no hidden agenda to the lunch. once we had finished I was not allowed to even go for the leather this had being orgainised as well as a gift that I excepted with joy. we both walked out me with my arm around her shoulder it was such a nice feeling to have had lunch with my Mother the most beutifully soul living

Wow That,s lovely, very great n sweet.

Originally Posted by Sexci_Diva

Hmm..after reading some of the guys posts on this topic i'm wondering whether to try this or not

I am here waiting!

Originally Posted by Alzeimer

If a guy can't remember the birthday of the woman he loves than there is a big problem, doesn't have to be big gestures every years but a well thought word or gift even if small is the least you can do for your love.

As for being treated, first I don't like the word treated I never treat I do something because I want to not because it is the norm (guy paying) I never see it like that nobody ever twisted my arm to do it it's because i want to. Only once could I say I have been "treated" was taken out to a show and coffee afterward didn't feel strange because she add told me in advance she wanted to take me out otherwise I always expect to pay my own.

We don't all have memories, I don't and never have had unlike my wife who on meeting someone she'd not seen for years may wish them happy birthday, she remembers! In this sit hits are dropped proor to the event, not the best sit but we live with it and have done for 40+ yrs.