Ok lets say you have started communicating with a Pricelesspartner.
You both click.
There is distance between you both as in location.
Or for some other reason unable to meet for a time.
As a moral issue do you:
Suspend your profile whilst chatting with this person.
Keep chatting to others .
To keep your options open.
Your views please.

Ultimately the decision is yours daisy but i think keeping the options open is a better idea just to be on the safe side lol


cheers
Sexci

Hi Cottendaisy

Can't see the harm in keeping your profile open for others to venture, as long as you are clear you know whats been said between you and this other person.

If you have not actually committed to each other as being partners, then you still come under the category of being single.

Only you know how far your conversation has gone and how much you are intertwined. Whatever your relation, it must be clear, you both know what you want. Should you wish to continue chatting to others on the site........your partner concerned, actually knows how you feel.


Katz

Originally Posted by cottendaisy

Ok lets say you have started communicating with a Pricelesspartner.
You both click.
There is distance between you both as in location.
Or for some other reason unable to meet for a time.
As a moral issue do you:
Suspend your profile whilst chatting with this person.
Keep chatting to others .
To keep your options open.
Your views please.

hi cottendaisy!

I think there is nothing wrong with maintaining a profile even if you already met somebody you like.

But it still depends on the level of attachment you have for each other. If it is not that serious yet, you can leave you options open. However, if you both agree to be "exclusive" with each other, then you can always specify in your profile your what is it that you are looking for anyway.

well if ya really think its worth anything just go with an open mind after all you can say 2 things to your self,its a waste of time or can i make something of this either way there is a choice to be made as time is our fact on how ya WANNA SPEND IT,bur remember if you think its worth something that is o k good luck?.

Why suspend the profile just becasue one has met someone on a dating site.. And especially if Two have Not Met as yet..

Keep your options Open I say..

You will not be hurting or cheating anyone if you are still here evn though there might be something happening..

After all, look at all the married members who have no Compuction doing it.. Looking and wanting.. have Fun ok...

You still haven't met face to face so you really have no idea on whether you "click" in person or whether you are truly compatible.

I've met plenty of people who seemed promising in emails but when we've met in person we've decided that we are best suited as "friends only".

If nothing else, you may wind up making lots of good friends just by keeping your profile up. Just be up front and say "I'm interested in someone and waiting on meeting them to see how far it goes."

I would leave profile open at least until you meet and the feelings are the same from both sides, as the saying goes "Don't count ya chickens before they hatch" so to speak.

You might meet and find the chemistry is not there but still remain friends. Only when it is agreed by both parties that you would like to get more serious would I take off looking for a relationship but are still looking for friends?? Can never have enough friends in life I reckon

Hey C/Daisy, I'm pleased for you as you are, that you have found someone you click with through the site.
I agree with all of the above, and would like to offer my advice that you consider:
1. You, yourself, and you and yours, be it kids etc. as you all come first!
2. Is it you, that is thinking or wanting to 'Opt Out' for now of P/P or him? And why? i.e. do the reasons stack up for you? Taking into consideration, that you haven't met this guy yet, early days hey?
3. Don't jump before you can run! There's no reason why you shouldn't be able to start things, and still be a great 'Advocate' at the same time. Which you are, and have been on this site. If this guy gets to 'Value' you for you, he will see that too.
4. Stay true to you, take it slow, and keep doing what you do best; Being you!
Hope this helps, keep smilin!

moral issues. hmmmmmm. To be or not to be ( on a p.c screen as a profile.) have to travel to Denmark and elsinore and clarify with the prince. cmon guys. go and have date r simply stay at home and chat in green, purple or blue english while soundin bombs to water.