Hi

I'm interested in this guy at work that is not really interested in me. Well he doesn't seem to be interested I tried talking to him and asking him questions but all he gives me is short sharp answers and doesn't seem that interested. Does any one have any tips or know of any guides on getting him to notice me?

I'd really like a guide or something like that where i can try out a few things and have a bit of fun while testing the ideas.

Jessica.

Originally Posted by jessica825

Hi

I'm interested in this guy at work that is not really interested in me. Well he doesn't seem to be interested I tried talking to him and asking him questions but all he gives me is short sharp answers and doesn't seem that interested. Does any one have any tips or know of any guides on getting him to notice me?

I'd really like a guide or something like that where i can try out a few things and have a bit of fun while testing the ideas.

Jessica.

Hi Jessica825

Please look at what you have written and see the pointers you have already stated.

1. He doesn't seem that interested in me

2. He gives short sharp answers when I speak to him

If this guy was even the slightest bit interested, he would actually be more attentive and respectfully answer your questions, without being short or sharp!

You dearly would like this guy to take notice of you and approaching him, clearly has him backed into a corner with his heckles up!

Your expectations are perhaps sobbataging what could be a great friendship. Get to know the guy slowly....take a more slower approach, introduce yourself and be NATURAL!

Don't push yourself onto anyone....you know deep down it is off putting when someone is smothering. It forces people to just run the opposite way!

Take a deep breath and except that if he does not want to have any form of relationship with you, then except that you are two different people!

There will ALWAYS be someone out there who is keen to get to know and appreciate YOU!

Good luck!


Katz

Thank you Katz.

I gave it another go by trying to talk to him over lunch and got a bit further. I'm really keen on this guy so I'll keep trying. If it's not going to happen then it's not going to happen.

I'll keep you posted if it works out.

Hi Jessica825

I'm rapt to hear you are having some progress! Fingers are crossed for your wishes....


Katz

Originally Posted by jessica825

Hi

I'm interested in this guy at work that is not really interested in me. Well he doesn't seem to be interested I tried talking to him and asking him questions but all he gives me is short sharp answers and doesn't seem that interested. Does any one have any tips or know of any guides on getting him to notice me?

I'd really like a guide or something like that where i can try out a few things and have a bit of fun while testing the ideas.

Jessica.

Guys are simple beings...get lured easily. It's just that there are certain priorities. In case you feel like caring for his priorities, you might get a bit close to him and chances are that the 'spark' happens.

Poor guy...so many brains working on to hook him with this girl...lol

After i posted my last reply I did a bit of searching and came across this article [url]http://************************] after reading it I went to work on a mission "to try and read his body language" I noticed a couple of things about him playing with his tie and the way he sat when I was near. then towards the end of the day I took the plunge and asked him out for dinner and guess what, he said yes.

We are going out for dinner tomorrow night I can't believe it im so happy and its all because of you wonderful people giving me the courage to take that frightening plunge and ask him out.

Wohoooooo!!!!

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Hi Jessica825

Well, congratulatiions on your achievement! Sincerely hope all goes well for you both!


Katz

Originally Posted by jessica825

After i posted my last reply I did a bit of searching and came across this article [url]http://************************] after reading it I went to work on a mission "to try and read his body language" I noticed a couple of things about him playing with his tie and the way he sat when I was near. then towards the end of the day I took the plunge and asked him out for dinner and guess what, he said yes.

We are going out for dinner tomorrow night I can't believe it im so happy and its all because of you wonderful people giving me the courage to take that frightening plunge and ask him out.

Wohoooooo!!!!

Sorry Jessica825 no ID information permitted in forum!

wonderful Jessie. just be yourself in all things to come. Just trust the magic in you and fly with it. Never reflect and plan. Best of luck