What type of person is it your'e looking for??

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Here we go

I already found him,,,errr i mean her

Personality : Honesty
Sense of humor
Comfortable with herself
Affectionate
Knows how to listen

Physically : For me what is most important is the face (I fall in love with faces)

A woman who can back me up in a bar fight

Ok to be serious I am looking for a laid back, independent flexible woman, who I can share companionship and affection. I am not looking for someone too needy or too vulnerable or submissive. I have quite a errr 'big' personality and I have been through the wars, so I don't take crap from anyone and I don't like anyone to take crap from me. So someone who can hold their own with an emotional person like myself by being assertive but not bxxxhy. But most of all, a GOOD COMMUNICATOR. I don't want to have to guess what your thinking, tell me! bad or good! If its all bad we could save ourselves a lot of time and emotion. If some of its bad, we can work on that. And I don't have time for rules for relationships or date doctor crap. We are too totally unique individuals so the only rule is good communication and to learn how to do that with each other. All problems can be solved by good communication even if it results in splitting up and its a skill you have to develop in every relationship.
Could this be you? dial 555Doctorlove (sorry could not help it )

Originally Posted by Sexci_Mamma

What type of person is it your'e looking for??

- Somebody I can share things with and can talk to.
- Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially) and reliable.
- Somebody I can learn from.
- Willing to experience life, and committed to his own growth as well as mine.
- Broad-minded, non judgemental and have the width and depth in life experience.
- Knows how to take charge in any situations.
- Strong and capable.
- Somebody that challenges me from time to time, and vice versa.
- Somebody I can respect.
- Decent and has respect for people and the environment.
- Warm and loving.

Physically, he has to be presentable. I believe that what's inside a person and how they feel about themselves, and their belief structures, shows outside. I think this says it all.

Originally Posted by aquarius

- Somebody I can share things with and can talk to.
- Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially) and reliable.
- Somebody I can learn from.
- Willing to experience life, and committed to his own growth as well as mine.
- Broad-minded, non judgemental and have the width and depth in life experience.
- Knows how to take charge in any situations.
- Strong and capable.
- Somebody that challenges me from time to time, and vice versa.
- Somebody I can respect.
- Decent and has respect for people and the environment.
- Warm and loving.

Physically, he has to be presentable. I believe that what's inside a person and how they feel about themselves, and their belief structures, shows outside. I think this says it all.

Gandhi was assassinated years ago

Originally Posted by aquarius

- Somebody I can share things with and can talk to.
- Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially) and reliable.
- Somebody I can learn from.
- Willing to experience life, and committed to his own growth as well as mine.
- Broad-minded, non judgemental and have the width and depth in life experience.
- Knows how to take charge in any situations.
- Strong and capable.
- Somebody that challenges me from time to time, and vice versa.
- Somebody I can respect.
- Decent and has respect for people and the environment.
- Warm and loving.

Physically, he has to be presentable. I believe that what's inside a person and how they feel about themselves, and their belief structures, shows outside. I think this says it all.

So would these be rules or a checklist you bring into every relationship or just an ideal?

Hey Thinker This list is an ideal but also an invisible checklist so to speak. Perhaps I won't find all those in one person (although I did find those characteristics in a guy years ago) but if most of them exist, then it's great!

The thing is, I've found that the calibre of guys I've met or know from someone else are just not that on par. A lot of men in this country doesn't seem to have it, or just can't be bothered, or are LAZY. One thing I forgot to add, must be a gentleman and chivalrous. Truly boys, it's amazing if you actually try this out (and be natural about it), how many girls you'll have flocking to you! I mean, girls might act like they're all independent and stuff, but if you really embody it, even the most cynical of women will be felled! Trust me, I've seen it in action in men I know lol!

Originally Posted by robbbyg

Gandhi was assassinated years ago

robbbyg you're a cynic!