I am in love with a guy i met downtown. We have an on and off relationship, but we always trying to work things out. We met in march, he recently bought me a promise ring, but when had a fight i threw it at him and told him to have a nice life. Now we are talking again but only as friends for now. He has alot of issues infact so do i. He thinks someone is trying to break us up. I talk and hang out with a friend of his he says she is a troublemaker. He says if i want to be with him stay away from her and her bf. But he talks to her too. When we first met we rushed into the relationship we never got to know eachother. I do love him and want to spent my life with him, we can never be alone he always thinks i just want to make out all the time which isn't true. He has a female friend she always has to be with us we can never be alone. She slept at his apartment one night and he won't let me sleep there. I am really confused i need some advice. I am really confused about him he can be nice and sometimes not and he changes his mind alot too. Please help?

he recently bought me a promise ring, but when had a fight i threw it at him and told him to have a nice life.



..do you think that was a nice thing to do?..do you think that hurt his feelings?


..if a man did that to you wouldn't you be hurt


..no wonder he is distant from you


..men have feelings and get hurt too - learn

move on

Originally Posted by angelwing

I am in love with a guy i met downtown. We have an on and off relationship, but we always trying to work things out. We met in march, he recently bought me a promise ring, but when had a fight i threw it at him and told him to have a nice life. Now we are talking again but only as friends for now. He has alot of issues infact so do i. He thinks someone is trying to break us up. I talk and hang out with a friend of his he says she is a troublemaker. He says if i want to be with him stay away from her and her bf. But he talks to her too. When we first met we rushed into the relationship we never got to know eachother. I do love him and want to spent my life with him, we can never be alone he always thinks i just want to make out all the time which isn't true. He has a female friend she always has to be with us we can never be alone. She slept at his apartment one night and he won't let me sleep there. I am really confused i need some advice. I am really confused about him he can be nice and sometimes not and he changes his mind alot too. Please help?

theres loads of time inyour life to be settled if your haveing doudts thenit will never work out

to me babe it sounds like thats all he wants from you...friendship..and the one trying to break you two up is him. One girl who is just a "friend" can stay over but the one hes supposed to be trying to patch things up with cant?! Hmmm sounds to me like hes just not being open and honest...Move on babe youll be much happier in the end...

forget about that wanka he sounds like an absolute asshole ,to me a relationship is to be open n honest love n respect but I am no saint so u can use or discard this but the whole thing is tottally ur choice .

Love is patient
Love is kind
it does not envy
it does not boast
it is not proud
it is not rude
it is not self seeking
it is not easily angered
it keeps no record of wrong
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with turth
It always protects,it always trust,always hopes,always preserves,

Hope that helps.
Move on.