I know this is kind of long. Unfortunately, everything must come to an end sometime and that is what is happening to my profile. I am deleting it sometime over the next few days. It is due to reasons of my lying about being someone that I am not. I just felt funny expressing my real self at the time because to most of the people that I know, it is not normal to be gay. I am a gay male who actually believed that I was a girl and was even thinking of becoming one. I pretended to be Emma Watson (the girl who plays Hermione Granger in the Harry Potter movies) from England because she is my role model. I was trying to be just like her in case I would change my gender. However, lately I have been realizing that there are a lot of gay, bi, bi-curious, and straight but may have a "romantic friendship" men and women in the world. I found out all of this online and I have been trying to kind of reveal it and I haven't been thinking about becoming a girl anymore but I can never reveal it to the "real world" because I am not "out" to my family and friends and I probably won't ever come out to them. They wouldn't understand. I just want to say sorry to all of those guys who were messaging me and saying that they would like to marry me and all of that other stuff but it can't happen. I am not who you thought I was and I just hope that everyone understands that. I was going to just delete my profile without an explanation tonight since I had time but I will wait a few days to make sure everyone knows that I am not who I was pretending to be and hopefully nobody was getting their hopes up for a relationship. Also, I am not from the UK; I am from the US.

Sweetie it normal to be what you are, be it gay, stright etc...

And if you want to be a female, why not, and if you want to dress and live your life as a woman , again no big deal, just do what your heart tells you..

Remember, life is too short to go around Pleasing Everyone, and living your life for others.. your life is YOUR OWN, and no one elses ok.. So, Think...

Cheers from Scorpio and cats...

Scorps is right psychicemma just be who your heart tells you to be. There's nothing wrong with being gay..if it makes you happy then so be it and don't let anyone else tell you different. Hope everything works out for you


cheers
Sexci

I agree with Both of these ladies, Don't let anyone else dictate to you, it is your life and you have to live it the way you want to. There is nothing wrong with being Gay, Bisexual, transgender or anything other than straight. Don't let closed minded people tell you how to live your life. Be happy with who you are, follow your heart and do what you feel is best for you.

You have many people here who will not judge you for who you want to be and for those who do Judge then they obviously have no comprehension of the REAL WORLD.

Stay happy psychicemma

Tox.

Listen to what these ladies are saying.
Sweet person you are what you are and belive in yourself.
I have a Gay best friend we go back like over 3o years.
I understand coming out must be hard.
But guess what you did start to even do that so what does that say.
Your true friends will understand and be there for you.
I wish you well.
Big hug

Well unfortunately, I can never come "out" to my family or friends because they are really prejudice against anything other than straight. I am thinking about coming out to the real world with my real name instead of a fake name though sometime in the future when I am away from my family and friends that I have now. But that probably won't happen for about another 10 years.

But I am still deleting my account today. I might have another account in the future if this site still exists but I am just too busy and I don't know if I am even ready to get into a relationship with a guy just yet because it will have to be really secretive.

Originally Posted by psychicemma

But I am still deleting my account today. I might have another account in the future if this site still exists but I am just too busy and I don't know if I am even ready to get into a relationship with a guy just yet because it will have to be really secretive.

This consciousness to come out with truth is worth appreciating. It shows that you are a good human being who prefers honesty and truthfulness. Life is not just about Sex and sexual preferences...it's much bigger. May you find happiness in whatever you do. All the best!

Originally Posted by psychicemma

Well unfortunately, I can never come "out" to my family or friends because they are really prejudice against anything other than straight. I am thinking about coming out to the real world with my real name instead of a fake name though sometime in the future when I am away from my family and friends that I have now. But that probably won't happen for about another 10 years.

unfortunately psychicemma that is a problem way too many people have with parents/family..everything has to be black or white...no in between.

Good luck with all that you do and try to stay happy

cheers
Sexci

i felt a little string tug with this post. i dont know if u are still on the system to read this but i thought necessary the time to reply.

i am a lesbian woman, i was originally a member of this site sometime back in my "lost phase" portraying myself as a bisexual woman because i was not sure what i was or what my friends or family would think. some of my family are prejudice, however i am me and they have the choice to accept and love me as i am or not.

i understand where you are coming from its a terrifying situation to think about, however sweetie YOUR happiness needs to come first and foremost, not only for yourself but also for those around you. sometimes we can't always be what other people want us to be and there is nothing wrong with that.

live your life your way and follow your heart. everyone deserves devine happiness and i hope in time you truly seek yours.

my family thought i was joking at first but have come to terms with it and love and accept me for who i am, even if they don't agree with it they accept it.

kind regards to you

sinnerz