If you don't have the same feelings and don't think you will. TELL HIM AND MOVE ON! Some men don't like it when you string them along, that's how some men become stalkers and rapists. LET HIM GO AND MOVE ON!!

Originally Posted by Poochi

In the first place, when you are asking on advice on such a 'matter of concern' and you have made your mind up for it...how you break up does not make much of a difference.

You only need ways to tell truth when you are not truthful yourself all through. The decision to take however is whether you would still like him to be a friend or you would like to close the chapter forever?

Don't think much and don't take much advise...be yourself and do what you like...atleast therein you would be true to yourself.

That's how 'nice guys' get used to dealing with 'nice women' anyways: rolleyes:

Originally Posted by melissa

I've gone out with a very nice guy about 5 times hoping the chemistry would happen but it didn't. Now he's asked me out for tomorrow night and I think it's unfair to keep seeing him when I don't have the same romantic interest.

How should I tell him? Is it horrible to do it in an e-mail? Should I be truthful and just tell him I'm not "feelin it"?

Thanks,

Melissa

Yes Just tell him, honesty is always the best policy. Maybe he isn't feeling IT either and doesn't know how to tell you??? No good letting it drag out that will only make it harder on you both.
Good Luck

Tox.

Originally Posted by melissa

I've gone out with a very nice guy about 5 times hoping the chemistry would happen but it didn't. Now he's asked me out for tomorrow night and I think it's unfair to keep seeing him when I don't have the same romantic interest.

How should I tell him? Is it horrible to do it in an e-mail? Should I be truthful and just tell him I'm not "feelin it"?

Thanks,

Melissa

tell him u fancy his mom

Originally Posted by melissa

I've gone out with a very nice guy about 5 times hoping the chemistry would happen but it didn't. Now he's asked me out for tomorrow night and I think it's unfair to keep seeing him when I don't have the same romantic interest.

How should I tell him? Is it horrible to do it in an e-mail? Should I be truthful and just tell him I'm not "feelin it"?

Thanks,

Melissa

Yes it is best to tell him,short term pain. Is far more easy to cope then,long term hope

i would say ive enjoyed the time we have spent together but i feel as if we are just friends i know you would love it to be more
but your mrs right is there somewere and i if you would likei would like to stay as a friend xx

yes let him down gently but you need to let him know,and you should tell him to his face,you need to have the courage to tell him face to face.