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If you want something, you go to where you may find it. If you just want more of the same, you stay where you are and expect change to come to you. Which it never does and you get more of the same. To find happiness with a partner, you have to go where you will find the type of partner you need, not the one you think you want. if you wanted to live in the country on a property, you wouldn't look in the local mall, pub or club in a city.
There's plenty of men over 50 around, its just that the sensible ones have moved to where they feel comfortable and are living where they feel good, not continuing on as a slave. I live in Tasmania and there are many many in their 50's who have moved over here to get the type of life they feel comfortable with. Most aren't rich, but are comfortable. When you are comfortable in your life, then yo can look for a partner who will accept your life and enhance it with heir presence. Sadly most women in their 50's only want to be near shops, their family and their comfort zone friends. They don't want to travel or take new directions in life, so they find there are no men available in their comfort zone area's, because the real men have moved out of the useless rat race and are creating a new future, not trying to rehash or continue with the old boredom and the main reason why their relationships collapsed in the first place. The comfort zone economic and social standards they are forced to undergo.
I talk to lots of men in their 50'a who are single, in the cities, all they want to do is get out, Whilst the ones who have moved out to a better quieter slower world, don't want to go back. So women don't contact them, because they don't fit their criteria of either living in a city where all the shops are, or close to their kids. How can anyone think you can have meaningful relationship when the kids and family are he number one priority. You are always second best, so it rarely ever works.
So there you go, what ever country your in, maybe you can't find what you want, because you are expecting it to come to you and aren't prepared to throw of your illusional comfort zone and have a look where the real men have gone. Where I live, there's heaps, enjoying their lives, but are also lonely for a best friend and someone to cuddle and not control or be controlled.
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It is a lovely place to live and my elderly mum, children and grandchildren arew all reasonably close. So maybe I am quilty of not wishing to leave "my zone".
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