Hi as a BBW I find its hard finding genuine men online....I guess its the same for many where men are happy to have sex, but thats all. It seems a lot of men want the dolly bird on their arm in public but are not so fussy sexually??. However being used is being used. Men who have a particular enjoyment for the bigger woman need to make themselves known. Us big girls enjoy nothing more than to be treated as beautiful women, so we carry extra body weight but there may be any number of reasons for that?? and why does it matter anyway?? I am in Australia and aussie men seem fairly picky whereas european man and american men seem to be much more appreciative?? Comments please??

In my opinion it is because of the loon world we all live in..

You said it all sister, not fussy to have sex with, but fussy when it comes to going out in public.. Than the dolly bird takes precedence over any woman who might be even slightly on the cuddly side..

Media will not let us forget that Thin is in and Fat is Not..

(not my personal opinion ok)..

I know it is Not fair, but, that is the way it is ..

I personally do not care what media tells me...

I have advantage of age, and I no longer have to compete or live in constant anticipation that I am going to be desired by some loon or not..

There is something to be said about being an older dame... Freedom...