are there any males who do not play head games.a man who says what he means , and means what he says.i have trouble with men who say yes i want to meet you and in the same breath know they really don't.they lie by ommission what ever happened to honesty.is it so hard to tell the truth.sorry gentelmen , i know this may sound like a male bashing , but truley it isn't , i just want to know WHY, SO IF YOU CAN EXPLAIN PLEASE DO , LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR REPLIES.ONYARIOCUTIE

I'm sure there are men around that behave as you describe but don't tar every man with the same brush.

There are some genuine men looking for genuine relationships.

I have to agree with ROCKET_3 that u shouldn't brand us all the same ok! as i have been on this site for a while now and most of the women that have contacted me start off really nice then hit on you for dollar's ,then when u say no they turn it intoit all your fault that they are having a cash problem or do they just see a meal ticket !!!!! .
But not all women are like this still to find 1 on here i hope

Guy's come on who are we fooling here , it does not matter the size of the game ..we are alway's playing it .

ill have to agree with startingover, majority of men seem to come to sites like this because they ar lonley, alot of women seem to to gold dig.

perhapse its something your saying or doing thats turning them off, men from my point of view generally dont have the time or patience to play silly little headgames. though there are exceptions to every rule

I keep reading about the Headgames Men/Women play in relationships.... what are the rules and how do you play????

Originally Posted by onyariocutie2006

are there any males who do not play head games.a man who says what he means , and means what he says.i have trouble with men who say yes i want to meet you and in the same breath know they really don't.they lie by ommission what ever happened to honesty.is it so hard to tell the truth.sorry gentelmen , i know this may sound like a male bashing , but truley it isn't , i just want to know WHY, SO IF YOU CAN EXPLAIN PLEASE DO , LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR REPLIES.ONYARIOCUTIE

For the same reason that dogs lick themselves

Originally Posted by sammy3905

Guy's come on who are we fooling here , it does not matter the size of the game ..we are alway's playing it .

speak for yourself....just cause you are playing games ...doesent mean we all are...im a genuinely decent guy and ive met a wonderful sweet lady on this site....who would not be bothered to cross the street to spit on me if i were playing games. Some guys do play terrible head games....i know..i used to be that guy....then i grew up and matured enough to see it dont work that way... for those of you who still play games with the ladies...you end up losing... for the guys who dont play games..you win. I can completely understand why most women are cynical of most guys...its cause most guys are bonafide scumbags and thats the way it is....i can say that...i was once a bondafide scumbag. lol. Anyhow...treat her right and you will be royally rewarded. End of speel.

For the most part, as I have seen, it is the guys that get taken quite a bit. Seems like most of the scames on these sites target the guys. So maybe it is this that has many men unsure of who is for real, and who is playing the games.
I think Startingover has hit the nail on the head here.
I know myself I cannot even remember the amount of money I have lost to women, but well over 20k. I know even now I am looking more for a friend than a relationship, as I am not sure how much to trust any more.
So maybe it is something you're saying or doing that is causing this? Not saying by intent, but none the less the same effect.

Originally Posted by Ronynz

I keep reading about the Headgames Men/Women play in relationships.... what are the rules and how do you play????

All's fair in love and war