Isn't that sad when some people think they are not worth more than they are? Scorps i think this is something any person with a bit of self respect asks about this topic, Maybe it's low self asteem, maybe it's something else, i dunno, but from someone who grew up in a very violent and abuseive house hold, my thoughts are GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE ASAP
The complusion in society that you have to BE with someone to be complete is a large part in making people stay in an abusive relationship. There is always something there saying "but if I am on my own I wont be able to...." "Im not complete without "X" by my side"
all untrue but strong emotional blackmailing feelings that can be used by the abuser even just the low self esteem of the victim.
That negative feeling can last along time after the situation has been left as well.
It is 30 odd years since I got out of the situation I was in and in reality I am really only just starting to come to grips with it now as I have always avoided facing my demons.
There are lots of different reasons why women stay in a controlling abusive relationship.
It's hard to understand if you have never experienced the feelings of fear and low self esteem,
Living with a controlling man will destroy your confidence
you think you love him and want him to change but he never will!!!
these women need help and support from people that understand, and have been through it themselves,
I myself was in an abusive relationship for eight years living with the delusion that i loved him and he would change if only .....
I got away from this kind of life i have lived on my own for five years with my hearing dog,
I am very happy and independent women now... if i can do it anyone can !!!!
*** No one have a right to be abusive to wards ether partner even if he/she think that there is a reason for it. There's all way's
way as how to work out the domestic problems, or misunderstand-ings. If that doesn't work, than you should move on. Living in abusive relationship, is same as living in jail, with you emotions locked in.Everyone have a right to live free***
*** No one have a right to be abusive to wards ether partner even if he/she think that there is a reason for it. There's all way's
way as how to work out the domestic problems, or misunderstand-ings. If that doesn't work, than you should move on. Living in abusive relationship, is same as living in jail, with you emotions locked in.Everyone have a right to live free***
Well...I found this bit sensible this time...good show desteny
*** No one have a right to be abusive to wards ether partner even if he/she think that there is a reason for it. There's all way's
way as how to work out the domestic problems, or misunderstand-ings. If that doesn't work, than you should move on. Living in abusive relationship, is same as living in jail, with you emotions locked in.Everyone have a right to live free***
Some women thrive on abuse though,, reason being they were treated badly as a child from a parent or peer and need that later in life to feel normal
They are subconciously attracted to violent men...
Anyway whats the biggie? nothing wrong with hanging them from the clothes line occasionally.
I am a 26 year old mother to 3 beautiful girls who are my world I just ended a 7yr relationship due to domestic violence which started about 3 weeks before i ended the relationship and also he was very controling and dss got involved. I had to do what was best for me and my kids and now i am happier than ever before and moving on with my life and my kids are doing so much better in school and love where they are staying with me. I know have a full time job and just got my driving permit on tuesday so i have made a big change in my life since i left the man who i thought loved me.
To all the women out there dealing with Domestic Violence it is time for you to leave and move on before something really bad happens and if you have kids do it for them I didn't realize how bad it was hurting my kids till it got to the point that dss got involved and my daughter told the school she was afraid.
If I can do it then you can to Try to make a better life for you and if you have kids for them too.
I am a 26 year old mother to 3 beautiful girls who are my world I just ended a 7yr relationship due to domestic violence which started about 3 weeks before i ended the relationship and also he was very controling and dss got involved. I had to do what was best for me and my kids and now i am happier than ever before and moving on with my life and my kids are doing so much better in school and love where they are staying with me. I know have a full time job and just got my driving permit on tuesday so i have made a big change in my life since i left the man who i thought loved me.
To all the women out there dealing with Domestic Violence it is time for you to leave and move on before something really bad happens and if you have kids do it for them I didn't realize how bad it was hurting my kids till it got to the point that dss got involved and my daughter told the school she was afraid.
If I can do it then you can to Try to make a better life for you and if you have kids for them too.
May God Bless You All And Keep You Safe!!!
Good for you HBL, As a women that was in a controling relationship myself i understand what you went through, the fact that you got away from this abusive bully shows how strong you are !! good luck to you in the future
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