Just to spice the forums a bit, I was researching about relationships etc..

Found these interesting opinions in The Age Newspapaer recently...

WHY MEN STRAY..
WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS?



All men are hardwired to chase a bit on the side. Right? Wrong, say the experts. Lisa Mitchell reports.

He snapped at the leash and was unfaithful with a casual acquaintance. “Why?” howls his partner. “I don’t know why,” he barks back. We like to tell ourselves that men stray because they are hardwired for sex.

But Australian sex therapists refute this.

Most men are unfaithful because they crave intimacy and can’t find it, they say. Some, of course, just lack self-control, morals and good sense. Ironically, men — unlike women — tend to use sex as an escape route from their problems.

And unless men can learn to communicate their needs verbally, instead of sexually, the charge of infidelity that causes about 20 per cent of marriage breakdowns, seems likely to continue. It’s time for a call to arms.

Do you agree with this statement?
Cheers to all from scorpio and cats...

To be fair many women do it too. I wonder if the same reason's are said for them hmm??

Originally Posted by Sexci_Diva

To be fair many women do it too. I wonder if the same reason's are said for them hmm??

I THINK IT MIGHT BE COMUNICATION BREAKDOWN..



And unless men can learn to communicate their needs verbally, instead of sexually, the charge of infidelity that causes about 20 per cent of marriage breakdowns, seems likely to continue. It’s time for a call to arms.

In my case husband dearest was great at comunicating only sexxually, and not with me LMAO... So, the marriage died, as I was tired of him comunicating with all and sundry but at home, I rest my case...

At one point he just told me GET A LOVER ok...

Just my humble opinion ok...

Originally Posted by SCORPIOWOMAN

Just to spice the forums a bit, I was researching about relationships etc..

Found these interesting opinions in The age Newspapaer recently...

WHY MEN STRAY..
WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS?



All men are hardwired to chase a bit on the side. Right? Wrong, say the experts. Lisa Mitchell reports.

He snapped at the leash and was unfaithful with a casual acquaintance. “Why?” howls his partner. “I don’t know why,” he barks back. We like to tell ourselves that men stray because they are hardwired for sex.

But Australian sex therapists refute this.

Most men are unfaithful because they crave intimacy and can’t find it, they say. Some, of course, just lack self-control, morals and good sense. Ironically, men — unlike women — tend to use sex as an escape route from their problems.

And unless men can learn to communicate their needs verbally, instead of sexually, the charge of infidelity that causes about 20 per cent of marriage breakdowns, seems likely to continue. It’s time for a call to arms.

Do you agree with this statement?
Cheers to all from scorpio and cats...

Hi Scorpiowoman

Whilst there are real hard core truths in what's been captivated in the above statement, I also believe SOME women, are guilty of similar actions.

Consistency in Communication, is paramount!

As written in other threads throughout this forum I reiterate, lack of EDUCATION on many realms, has a lot to answer for....


Katz

*** Hehehe... Why there's men fault all the time ???
There's another creatures in this world called woman. Takes two to tango ***

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Originally Posted by desteny

*** Hehehe... Why there's men fault all the time ???
There's another creatures in this world called woman. Takes two to tango ***

Hi Desteny

You need to read the original thread posted, clearly depicting a survey specifically researching habitual actions of most men!

Granted it shouldn't have stated most, but SOME!

However, there is NOT one person whom has agreed to it being only males fault, but have also acknowledged the fact.....that SOME women are culprit to committing the same actions!


Katz

Originally Posted by Katz Eyez

Hi Desteny

You need to read the original thread posted, clearly depicting a survey specifically researching habitual actions of most men!

Granted it shouldn't have stated most, but SOME!

However, there is NOT one person whom has agreed to it being only males fault, but have also acknowledged the fact.....that SOME women are culprit to committing the same actions!


Katz

Thank you Katz I agree maybe the wording should have been used in more positive ways...

Yes, all who tend to jump on bandwagon..Raed The Thraed carefully ok...

I once asked a friend who is married why is he straying his answer was...

Like cars we all want the best and newest models...

Originally Posted by desteny

*** Hehehe... Why there's men fault all the time ???
There's another creatures in this world called woman. Takes two to tango ***

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My humble apologies great master of all knowledge..

No one here is criticizing men, this was from a survey by professionals and not the authors...

Originally Posted by SCORPIOWOMAN

I once asked a friend who is married why is he straying his answer was...

Like cars we all want the best and newest models...

Hi Scorpiowoman

lol I do love your dear friends description above!

Now where's my new model....?


Katz

Ah yes, I would love a new model, hubba hubba...