First witness has been called to the stand then :P lol

Well he had been here and refuses to testify. May be silence should be taken as admission of no case for him. Witness dismissed.

Maybe we can adjourn it for now then lol give hime a chance to respond ?

Request granted. Adjourned the court is till the First Witness recovers. All rise.

Here are some reasons Porn does Nothing for me..
I am only speaking for myself, Not other females...

Watched porn and it never did anything for me I am more turned on by a painting or a tasty photo than sqelch sessions on screen...

Answers below are from females I asked what do they think about Porn etc...


Many have answered thus...

It's a no-win situation for us.

We also feel inadequate in the bedroom. Like, we really are bad at it.

Or unatractive and will never measure up to the unrealistic women in the porn films...

It hurts our ego.

We just can't compete with that! It's frustrating and if our partner is watching it, we feel like he wants somebody better than we are in and out of bed.

It insults us and hurts our feelings.

We feel like, ANY minute, our guy is going to leave us if he could only find someone as in these porn flicks..

It's as simple as that.

Can you understand now?

Originally Posted by Indiana J

All right. First principles:

1.porn movies are mainly aimed at male buyers.( basis for this assertion????)

2.There aren't many females who would go out in the market to purchase a porn dvd (I haven't seen one).
Cross examination: 1. Do you like porn? ; 2. How often you watch porn; 3. Do you buy porn yourself; 4. At what time do you shop; 5.Is it not true that when you saw a female purchaser of porn you felt it is strange; 6. When you see something strange what would you do;

3.Women do not make obvious what they like or dislike( basis for this assertion????)

I had just mentioned my opinion...in case you are interested to play question answers...keep playing solitaire...Cheers!

Originally Posted by ChickFromDaBush

Why thank you Indiana so kind of you, I just had to point out to poochi that some of us like it

Thanks for mentioning it here Chick...I understand likes and dislikes aren't much different among men/women. It's just that some are open to discuss certain topics and some find discussing over a little weird.

One can look at a single object from two different angles and have varied perceptions

Originally Posted by ChickFromDaBush

I don't hate porn, in fact I kinda like it :P

It can help to broaden ones perspective etc and make one become a little more fun ?? lol

It can be disrespectful though in some of them I guess (I see where ya coming from scorps) but most times I think it can be a good way to have some foreplay with your partner

I guess it is, each to there own ??

although I admit I have not had much to do with porn, I appreciate your honesty chick. Very few women at a guess would say they like it as for some it would make them feel like they would be cheapening themselves. That in some cases many females are still very conservative in their views.
Porn has a very negative reputation and some of it rightly so, the little I have seem has just been smut and crudity with no real story line except for gratification of a few.
Some men like to put their women on a pedestal, they, the men, like watching porn but would be disgusted if the women said they liked watching it, the old 2 edged sword, damned if you do & damned if you dont.

Now I am going to do an IJ....

how many of the men here who say they like porn, would like the lady in their life, their long term partner, to watch porn???
Not a lady from a one night stand or a casual relationship, but the person you want to be your partner for the long term..
Would this change your judgement of how you would view the lady in question?

Good point Aussiejem...

I will go further and ask..

Guys How would you feel if the lady in your life Starred in Porn or Posed for a Porn Type Magazine...

Originally Posted by SCORPIOWOMAN

Good point Aussiejem...

I will go further and ask..

Guys How would you feel if the lady in your life Starred in Porn or Posed for a Porn Type Magazine...

I personally will not accept that. It does not gel with the kind of life i am living and the type of personnel i deal with. In my view these men/women are not well socially accepted (Debatable - Yes, but i take my stand on this). I shall require somebody who could be socially accepted and lead a life with simple things (we can afford) and love & peace.

The question however is incomplete in my view. Starring in porn or posing for a Porn type magazine could also be a personal/professional choice of the individual. There are such things which better remain unsaid cause they are a little complex for general brains to understand. The needs, priorities, situations or willingness to accept this lifestyle for these men/women could be different then yours or mine.

We as humans generally have two standards good or bad. What is acceptable to us falls in good category and what isn't falls in the other. The question here should actually be...What all humans have to undergo to sustain life? Whether or not it is liked by others is another question