My friend just joined a dating site...

She said all she gets is Guys wanting Sex and Sex Chatting etc..

Her email is full of crap from men just wanting relationships with NO Strings..

Ok, I understand that.. But in all sincerety how many women are actually going to give them No Strings Sex talk or Otherwise...

Saw a survey on a website and it said NUMBER One on male list when chatting is SEX...

Nothing wrong with sex, but, honestly do you guys really think us women are soooo interested of getting our rocks off through sex talk be it on IM, email etc...

And I am sorry to say these requests are mostly from Married Men...

Just my opinion ok..

Now why doesn't that suprise me lmao

well i can understand y married men want no strings attached the problem is they dont stop to think about there marriage or there partners, because the romance has gone and the honeymoon period has dissapeared, only because the (Men) cant be bothered keeping it alive, they tend to 4get also the wife is looking after the kids and maybe hey?? she's tired cos she gets no support, next minute you have divorce funny that!!.

APPLAUDS Realguy20, FINALLY a male who understands exactly what goes on both in a males mind and a females mind. You have hit the nail on the head here Realguy.

Well,

To be quite honest what the hell did he see in her in the first place, immaturity is what i call it and excuse the phrase C..Struck, its really amazing how many women dont know who there husbands r underneath, i feel alot of males have not grown up and still living in fantasy of behind the bikesheds, they dont realise that sex is not the only thing in a marriage, what about intimacy?? **** how many males have heard of that?? well i would hate to ask, good income earners fine , but where is the brain i ask ??

I believe that allot of men think it's cool to show a macho image.

but it's the last thing us women want!

a bit of tenderness and loving goes a long way to getting a women in the right mood.

what's more off putting than your partner watching the footie all
night with a few beers or being ignored and grunted at then at bedtime your not so loving partner wants to know why your not in the mood for sex.

Men don't get it !!!

instead of ignoring the wife and using these date sites for a no strings sex

give your women the attention she deserves, stop moaning that the
spark has gone out of your marriage, and try taking a look at yourselves.

Just wondering...Why don't we men complain of a similar experience. It appears either we don't get to experience this or aren't bothered about mentioning it...lol

As far as CARE is concerned I think both sexes need it equally and is the least to expect from a partner. Can't say much as haven't experienced much

Sadly but most (not all) women are attracted by the macho sweet talker type, they might complain about them but they are the ones that stick out in a crowd, the ones you hear the most,the one thats talks the loudest they are a challenge to the mother side of a woman thinking that they can change him to the image they have of how a man should be, this way they can proudly say that they succeeded in molding him from macho to a decent type instead of going directly to the type of man who are already decent (not a challenge).

Some learn over the years but to many keep on going back to the wrong type for them and so will keep on complaining.

And ladies if a guy is not romantic unless for a reason than he is not the romantic type but the oh! today birthday must do something nice type, romance is for everyday and any reason and because you want to be, not because it is whats your suppose to do.

Just my humble opinion.

Originally Posted by Alzeimer

Sadly but most (not all) women are attracted by the macho sweet talker type, they might complain about them but they are the ones that stick out in a crowd, the ones you hear the most,the one thats talks the loudest they are a challenge to the mother side of a woman thinking that they can change him to the image they have of how a man should be, this way they can proudly say that they succeeded in molding him from macho to a decent type instead of going directly to the type of man who are already decent (not a challenge).

Some learn over the years but to many keep on going back to the wrong type for them and so will keep on complaining.

And ladies if a guy is not romantic unless for a reason than he is not the romantic type but the oh! today birthday must do something nice type, romance is for everyday and any reason and because you want to be, not because it is whats your suppose to do.

Just my humble opinion.

Just wondering again...is it actually worth for these women to spend so much time changing a personality...Well who wishes to work nowadays...lol. The ready-mades are available...in plenty...lol

Originally Posted by Poochi

Just wondering again...is it actually worth for these women to spend so much time changing a personality...Well who wishes to work nowadays...lol. The ready-mades are available...in plenty...lol

I wasn't talking about the whole male species was trying to get over my point about these unsupecting women at home are looking after the kids, while the husbands are on these date sites, saying they are looking for no strings sex because the spark has gone out of there marriage!!!