How do other members here feel about being called 'Sexy' by a complete stranger?

I find the ter disrespectful and inappropriate and perceive it to be bordering on sexual harassment especially after I have asked not to be addressed in such terms.

I perceive it to be especially disrespectful coming from someone young enough to be my son or grandson.

My male friends do not disrespect me in that way. They are always courteous and use apropriate terms of endearment depending on the nature and depth of the friendship.

Is there anyone else here who does not welcome, invite or want this term applied to them?

Or, again, am I the only one?

and curious...

Originally Posted by Kamilla

How do other members here feel about being called 'Sexy' by a complete stranger?

I find the ter disrespectful and inappropriate and perceive it to be bordering on sexual harassment especially after I have asked not to be addressed in such terms.

I perceive it to be especially disrespectful coming from someone young enough to be my son or grandson.

My male friends do not disrespect me in that way. They are always courteous and use apropriate terms of endearment depending on the nature and depth of the friendship.

Is there anyone else here who does not welcome, invite or want this term applied to them?

Or, again, am I the only one?

and curious...

The irony is how can they call any woman sexy, especially when there is No Photo..

This just shows the intelligence of some members..

On my profile it says in no uncertain terms.. I do not IM, I am here for Frirnds only etc..

I still get sexual questions with photos yet.. You gotta laugh, becasue it is funny..

Originally Posted by SCORPIOWOMAN

The irony is how can they call any woman sexy, especially when there is No Photo..

This just shows the intelligence of some members..

On my profile it says in no uncertain terms.. I do not IM, I am here for Frirnds only etc..

I still get sexual questions with photos yet.. You gotta laugh, becasue it is funny..

It's the term of address that I object to anywhere...

How do you react to being called 'Sexy' out in the 'real world' where people do see you?

BTW, you have a pic and get emails declaring undying love and how beautiful you are etc etc...

I don't have a pic here as I can't have a private one. If you saw the only one I could find I'd hardly describe myself as 'sexy'...

Irony indeed,
apparently my profile description comes across to those who IM or want contact with me, as 'sexy' 'erotic' 'sensual' 'sexual' and any other term that arouses male hormones to rage out of control...

Why???

Originally Posted by Kamilla

It's the term of address that I object to anywhere...

How do you react to being called 'Sexy' out in the 'real world' where people do see you?

BTW, you have a pic and get emails declaring undying love and how beautiful you are etc etc...

I don't have a pic here as I can't have a private one. If you saw the only one I could find I'd hardly describe myself as 'sexy'...

Irony indeed,
apparently my profile description comes across to those who IM or want contact with me, as 'sexy' 'erotic' 'sensual' 'sexual' and any other term that arouses male hormones to rage out of control...

Why???

Not, male hormones as much as male cretinisam of some, and no life and of course cowards who are good at dishing out while hiding behind the PC..

Well we are also good at dsihing replies and some of us have a picture, lmao..

[quote=SCORPIOWOMAN]Not, male hormones as much as male cretinisam of some, and no life and of course cowards who are good at dishing out while hiding behind the PC..

Well we are also good at dsihing replies and some of us have a picture, lmao../QUOTE]



Lady Bump (mind you no grind... lol) at itt again...

Sadly I'm not up to speed with the dishing out of the replies...
Well not yet anyway...

Re pics...

I don't dare put one up!!!

The ones that I do have 'locked' on other sites seem to attract some weird (to me anyway) attentions and reactions...

How one of them could possibly be described as 'sexy' beats me!!!

Another pic which carefully conceals any signs of a 'female form' beneath and is of me in 'daggies' prompted one wombat to comment on the shape and size of some of my carefully concealed ' girly bits' (not to mention what he wanted to do with them... (yuk!)

I never know how tto respond to men (of any age) calling me 'sexy'...



Well, ok a few friends do it to tease just to see me bristle and do my cactus flower imitation (get all *****ly or thorny)...
grrrr


Now here's another...

Was recently called a 'hot *****' at a rather large social function sort of formalish...

How on earth does a 'lady' respond to that???
(Yep it was the head honcho at the do too!)

I was dressed like a nun too...