if any one has been in a relationship where ur partner had hit you all the time around kids and ur kids are to scared to move or do any thing after you walked out of the relationship what do you do

u call for help FAST! & knock him out 4 me on the way out! dnt stand 4 that crap!

Originally Posted by babyd23

if any one has been in a relationship where ur partner had hit you all the time around kids and ur kids are to scared to move or do any thing after you walked out of the relationship what do you do

Hello baby23

Its imperative you and your children are right out of this predicament.
Seek professional help immediately. Your childrens well being, emotionally and physically, are paramount.

Please do not remain PASSIVE to this abuse and recognize that you must take ACTION.
There are many ways to get help, through schools, family, local Doctor, Counseling, Family courts, Police, Yellow pages.......DIALLING EMERGENCY NUMBER IN YOUR STATE/COUNTRY.

Which is the hardest to do?

To pick up the phone and ASK for help, or to continue to be verbally and physically abused?

You cannot allow FEAR to rule your life.

You are an adult, your children SEEK the 'PARENT' in YOU!

Please honour that gift.........You are an ADULT and you are ENTITLED to living WITHOUT FEAR, ABUSE and EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL.

Start LOVING yourself and TAKE ACTION............

Katz

Originally Posted by Katz Eyez

Hello baby23

Its imperative you and your children are right out of this predicament.
Seek professional help immediately. Your childrens well being, emotionally and physically, are paramount.

Please do not remain PASSIVE to this abuse and recognize that you must take ACTION.
There are many ways to get help, through schools, family, local Doctor, Counseling, Family courts, Police, Yellow pages.......DIALLING EMERGENCY NUMBER IN YOUR STATE/COUNTRY.

Which is the hardest to do?

To pick up the phone and ASK for help, or to continue to be verbally and physically abused?

You cannot allow FEAR to rule your life.

You are an adult, your children SEEK the 'PARENT' in YOU!

Please honour that gift.........You are an ADULT and you are ENTITLED to living WITHOUT FEAR, ABUSE and EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL.

Start LOVING yourself and TAKE ACTION............

Katz

Totally Agree with Katz view you shold not continue with a person who can't respcet you as a person ....

I think might be having two major concerns...

1. your confidence....
2. May be some financial insecurity......

anything else which is stopping you from moving out of this.....

Originally Posted by babyd23

if any one has been in a relationship where ur partner had hit you all the time around kids and ur kids are to scared to move or do any thing after you walked out of the relationship what do you do

Hi Babyd get yourself and your children out of that house as fast as you can......Each time he hits you and you do nothing ,you give him permission to do it again.......
Your Children do not need that kind of role model and neither do you....
your profile says you have some Uni .education then you know that what is happening is Wrong....
Check and see if there is a womens refuge in you town...or where the nearest one is...if necessary call the Police......
You have to leave that Man and that situation..asap....
Good luck and be STRONG you can do this....