hi everyone
this may or may not have been asked before but can anyone tell me if women with or without kids are put off by men with kids as i dont seem to have much success online or maybe its me

Hi Foggo,
You're a bit light on as far as describing yourself etc.
Why not check out some of the other guys and when u c a profile you like, do something similar.Cheers.

He's right a good description of yourself helps a lot woman have so many choices compare to us guy you almost need something special. I find that a nice and personal email will attract their attention and then your profile might encourage them to write you back.

Don't be discourage and be honest most woman asks for that.

Both good replies guys.....yep the more info (description wise) you can have on your profile the better

I personally would prefer someone with kids because then they understand time is precious and it is the quality of the time you spend together that matters most. I have dated guys with kids and found it to be great as my daughter met new friends as well and i am lucky, the kids thought alot of me.The relationship never lasted and i consider myself lucky as i met some wonderful people and i felt priviliged for that.Good luck and learn that it is what is inside that matters the most. May blessings be yours always

Gabrielle

Originally Posted by foggo

hi everyone
this may or may not have been asked before but can anyone tell me if women with or without kids are put off by men with kids as i dont seem to have much success online or maybe its me

Why would anyone be put off by a man who has kids? Geez I have 3 of my own and I find the same foggo, Most males are put off by the fact we females have kids. This is not true however as these days there are many single parents out there and just because we have kids doesn't make us any different from those who do not have kids. We are all human and we all want to find that special someone, having kids just makes it a little more difficult as we have to consider their feelings on the situation as well.

Hang in there, someone will snap you up in no time unless you snap them up first.

Good Luck.

Tox.

We are a selfish population and most people man and woman want to be number uno with their new love and they know that if you have kids you will never be.

My love has 2 kids and I know and would not want it any other way that I will come after them always, I want to be part of the family so not only do I gain a love one but three how more lucky can I get.

Originally Posted by foggo

hi everyone
this may or may not have been asked before but can anyone tell me if women with or without kids are put off by men with kids as i dont seem to have much success online or maybe its me

Hi foggo, firstly I'm sorry for your loss. Although you haven't given much info about how long it has been etc. you are obviously on here because you would like the opinion of others, to find friends, and be part of something again. So, good on you for that! Sometimes, it can be a matter of whether you are ready to meet, and be with someone new, or, whether it's just the thought of being so. I know sounds confusing but it is actually a very important thing for you to be thinking about.
When you say;
"I don't seem to have much success online, or maybe it's me" that says to me that maybe every profile you are looking at, isn't right for you. You should be upfront, honest, and true to yourself with whoever you are chatting with, and even looking at online. Be honest with yourself, are you looking for: A really good friend, a good listener, a possible partner after a good friendship first? Ask yourself, you'll know! Only you, can answer that question, and only you, can know when you are ready to take whatever 'next step it may be' for you. Take your time, breathe easy that you have the time, and take it, a bit at a time!