apollo84 seein what's out there

Been single a little while, ready to start meeting people again. I'm an above average intelligent guy, hard working, devoted to my relationships and very honest. If there's something bothering you I'd prefer you sat me down and talked about it before it turns into an argument later. Looking for someone special, I've had enough of simply accepting situations. I now want someone who improves upon me as a person, making me a stronger individual as much as I do for them. I bring a lot to the table; I graduated from Southern Methodist University with a B.A. in Psychology and a minor in Childhood Education. I'm a 2nd place state champion swimmer (2003) and a member of the Texas All-State Swim Team so...I'm very athletic, I still make it a point to work out 4-6 times a week.

I also was a swim instructor for kids ranging in age from 3 all the way up to 14 years of age and enjoyed that job for 2 years. I get along great with kids but by no means want to have my own at this point in time. I love to sit with friends and have a beer, relax and talk about everything; share stories and relax. I'm very laid back and easygoing, just looking for someone to share life with is the best way to put it.

Currently looking for someone who is stable, emotionally and financially, I'm nobody's therapist or meal ticket. I don't do the whole baggage thing (implying some people do?), so if you aren't over your ex please deal with that first. Relationships aren't about competing over someone's affections and I simply don't have room in my life for fighting anymore, especially with people I care about. Keeping it all very cut and dry, if you've made it this far I want to be straightforward and lay this out.

I'm NOT looking for: drug users, mommies, the overweight (respect your own body as much as I do mine, physical attraction is a must as much as mental is)

I don't like wasting the time of other people, I'm here to meet someone who has goals in her life and is working at achieving them. I want someone who is sexy and knows she can seduce me as much as I can her. I don't want to be the only person making advances in a relationship, it goes both ways - you're partners as much as you are friends so act like it :)

I'm great with smart asses, someone with wit is all the better; I have a profound chemistry with people of that nature. I'm very fun and love to joke around, sit back and relax, just enjoy the people I'm with.

If any of what I've just described sounds like you please write me, you won't regret it; I'm about as friendly as a person could possibly be :)

Brian

Honestly? I'm not entirely huge on the whole dating scene, I would rather meet up at a very informal outdoor bar, share a drink and just talk. Low key, no pressure. If you don't drink we can of course figure something else out.