Morticia-x-x- Stimulate My Mind

Hi there :)

Since you're here I'd like to share this with you- I have learnt that the quickest way for a person to draw the RIGHT person for them into their life, is to be completely honest & CLEAR with themselves FIRST, about what it is they want & NEED BEFORE they meet someone. This is where the law of attraction comes into play.

There is no point in battling with yourself to try & tell someone "hey this hurts to say, I wish it wasn't true because I have grown attached to you (love you), however unfortunately I have REALISED... you are NOT what I'm looking for" when this entire scenario could have been avoided had you taken the time out to ASK YOURSELF what it is YOU WON’T settle for when looking for a man/woman who you will consider husband/wife MATERIAL. Why put yourself & them through the turmoil of a breakup, when you could have known from the start (friendship) that you will not be happy. Anyone can be a boyfriend/girlfriend, but it takes a unique person who has the qualities you need & the VICES you CAN live with to be your husband/wife. No one is perfect; however you will know it's right when you find their imperfections endearing, rather than annoying or even worse intolerable.

Knowing beforehand what you’re looking for prevents the needless pain of the breakup of a relationship that shouldn't have taken off to begin with. And then you’re in a position where even in knowing that he/she is not right for you as a partner, you are still in a win/win situation where the worst case scenario would then only be that you gained a friend, & one can never have too many friends :))

Yes to only date people that you can see a future with will mean you will be single a lot of the time, however you are then single, sexy, & free- not wasting time committed to the wrong person, & available for the right person when they cross your path.

If you do not KNOW what you WANT, you will ATTRACT to yourself a lot of what you DON'T WANT & more than likely waste your time & that person’s time slowly discovering they are not for you & vice versa. Know what you want beforehand, BEFORE that someone's eyes & charisma capture your soul, & lure you into a fruitless relationship that will not bring neither you or them LONG-TERM happiness- because you later DISCOVERED that there's just SOME THINGS you DO NOT WANT to LIVE WITH or WITHOUT. It will inevitably have to end because you cannot CHANGE someone- only yourself.

Knowing what you want will work as your filter from the beginning of an introduction- allowing you to recognise what you DON’T want, separate it from what you DO want, & therefore spend your precious time ONLY on relationships which you have previously decided are compatible with you.

Good luck in your quest for the “one”.
Morticia-x-x-

A man to be himself, why wait 5 dates later to discover we're not compatable?