shycindy67 About Me

I have a relaxed casual neat style. I do try to look nice. I usually wear glasses. Would like to get rid of them. I'm best with a small group or one-on-one for chats.

I have a lot of books. I like to write poetry sometimes. I can speak enough Cantonese to get by. I have completed 5th grade piano, I did a couple of years of Wing Chun, I went tandem skydiving once. I would like to take up ballroom dancing. I am doing an IT Certificate at the moment.

I believe in honesty, loyalty and integrity. I believe in treating people with respect and expect the same in return. I also believe that life is for enjoyment. We should take the path that makes us happy and not let others dictate to us what we should and shouldn't do. I think that as individuals, each of us has the right to our own beliefs as long as it doesn't hurt ourselves or others.

The kind of man I'm looking for
I prefer tall, intelligent and a little out of the ordinary. Slim, athletic or average build. Clean shaven with shortish hair. Non-smoking and drug-free. Trustworthy and loyal. Someone to cuddle up with while watching movies. Someone I can chat with, who will listen to my most intimate weird thoughts and not judge me and to whom I can listen to and understand in return. Someone who can stimulate me with their amazing thoughts on the universe. Someone who can make me feel all tingly inside. I want him to be my best friend too. Maybe we could go for walks, picnics, cycling, canoeing/kayaking, fishing, shopping or build a telescope or robot together. Or perhaps sing and dance together.

I don't mind making some friends along the way. I think that's the best way to start a long-lasting relationship. Not into short-term intimate relationships though. It would be wonderful to find that special someone to share things with. Someone I can be truly comfortable with and who can make my heart do flip flops.

For a first date maybe we could have coffee and lunch together. Just a friendly chat to get to know each other better. Just hang out for a bit. Keep it relaxed and casual.

Given my current lifestyle I don't get much of an opportunity to meet some nice men so it would be good to have some men buddies and see how we go from there.