scandlouscowgrl Cowgirl seeks her Cowboy

Seeking a man who is truely a man. Must be romantic and loving yet firm and still a man at the same time. Must be someone who is comfortable with snuggling and the little touches and looks that lets one another know what your thinking and feeling. MUST love children and animals. My children come first and foremost and will not be shoved to the side. Must understand if my children are sick on a date night that either you accept the date is canceled or must be content watching movies at the house while i' sick children and peddling out chicken noodle soup. Understand that sex is not an option especially on the first few dates as my bed count is on ONE hand and I intend to keep it as such. I was raised with old fashioned values and morales and am instilling those in my children. I have daughters and a son to raise so must be a POSITIVE influence if your around. Not looking for them a daddy they have one who loves them very much it just didnt work out for us.Must have your own transportation, own house, have steady employment. I'm not looking to support no man nor a man to support me. I have a job I love which lets me off on all weekends but one a month. Needs to love most or some of the things I like such as bonfires, bar-b-ques with friends an family, horses, animals, horseback riding, hunting(no I dont know how to hunt but I'm willing to go to deer camp when hunting season is about), fishing(I like it when I catch something), horror movies, camping, snuggling, zoos, road trips, 4 wheeler riding, mudding, etc.

Looking for a man who takes pleasure in being the man in the relationship, not a control freak just someone who can accept that I can not do everything that I must at times defer to a man on some things I can not do. Be comfortable with doing some things around a house, not a couch potato who expects me to wait on you hand and foot. I take care of whom I'm with but will not be a slave. No one abusive, no drugs or drunks, no party animals, no swingers, no group sex fantics, no sex freaks, no buo "self-employed" meaning you get a check just cause you dont want to work(sorry), no momma boys( your umbilical cord must be detached) it's fine to be close to mom but not so close she knows when we fight and about what. Looking for a true cowboy, not a wanna be. Someone who is comfortable with me dressing up at times or just as comfortable with me wearing a tee shirt and sweats. Someone who is not seeking a petite barbie doll female companion as I am not petite nor a barbie doll. I'm me. Understand my children come first and foremost and be comfortable with that and accept it. Someone who is accepting that the relationship will not move to the sex stage until I am comfortable with it and feel it will not have a negative impact on the way I'm raising my children as they have never seen any man but their daddy at the house overnight.