sweetnsassy You miss 100% of the shots you dont take

You could say “My inner child is a juvenile delinquent.” Because I like doing things in the moment, making someone laugh, and sometimes a bit of a sarcastic side, I believe life is to short not too embrace it whole hearted, or to quote James Brown "Any problem can be solved by dancing.”
I would say my best features are my green eyes and sweet smile.

Guys If I've added you to my favorites list, it's because I read your profile and I really liked what you had to say. If it bothers you please just let me know and I'll remove it "promise." No hard feelings. I’m not gay or bi but, I am open to females contacting me for friendship or hanging out. I am looking for some good solid friendships and a positive network of good people.


Currently I am enrolled at ITT Tech in Austin, Tx for an Associates degree, in computer and electronics engineering.
I am independent and don't like or plan to rely on any one to support me, I'm a big girl and can stand on my own two feet.
Not being your typical girlie girl; my favorite dress is my old pair of jeans, and sometimes a base ball cap, (Pony tail included)
I do like to dress up once in awhile, (with the little black dress, and heels) if I'm going out.

I dont go to the clubs aka "meatmarkets" anymore, I prefer just staying in and watch a good movie, or go to a movie, shoot some pool, hang out with friends, and look for whatever is interesting to do, one thing I would like to do but haven't gotten to yet is go rock climbing, hopefully one day I will. I enjoy one liners, but it is refreshing to get a message that is not on the 1st grade level, a little more than check yes or no. Or messages that just read U R HOT. I like mentally stimulating conversations. I am an optimistic person who enjoys life. Sociability and feeling connected are important to me - I get a lot of energy from being with other people. I believe we can continue to grow and learn all our lives, and I strive to do so myself

Musically, I grew up in the 70s/early 80s and love classic rock, but also country, Spanish, pop and even classical, when the mood hits me, I pretty well like it all, For me it is all about the lyrics that's what sells me on a song.


The best kiss is a passionate one you never forget...with the person you care deeply for. Spending time together and enjoying each others company no matter what you're doing. Whether it’s cuddling on the couch watching a movie, snuggling under the covers, or just having good conversations sharing belly laughs. These nights are magical.


I like it when a guy is open minded, can just be himself, isn't afraid to try new things, is comfortable both giving and receiving affection, someone I can laugh with, be silly, or serious with. That enjoys life, comfortable with himself, knows there is stress in life....but doesn't let it run his life, the one that isn't afraid to show and express their feelings, and agrees to disagree at times.

I don't believe in going on one date and somehow magically "you're a couple", it takes time and building things like trust, honesty, and chemistry. Without these simple things, there is nothing to build off of. It's always good to start out as friends first, and just date to see where things lead.


I hate adding this last part, it's going to sound awful;
If your one of those guys who think all women always lie, please don't bother me!! Go to a shrink and deal with your emotional issue there.... I have better things to do than be told what I am and what I'm not. I'm not trying to claim that I am an angel, or say that I never make a mistake "however" I'm not up for mind games, I don't play games, I don't care for the hurt that it causes, and don't care to have them played on me.. TRUST is hard to come by, and is something I value highly. I am truly sorry for sounding so negative, however no one wants to deal with someone who pre-judges or can't be trusting enough not to start arguments or cause drama. I don't believe in jealousy, people do have friends, both male and female, I don't judge others based off of their past, we all have one. If everyone started to freak out over those things we'd all be in a lot of trouble.
I don't put out either. Don't get me wrong!! I am a great fan of it, when I'm active, however I'm not just anybody and I don't put out to just anybody. Intimate encounters and one night stands, are not on my to do list. I am not that girl!!! If I meet that special guy I will please him as he should also please me - he will have all of me. So don’t IM me thinking that I will take you there - you are just wasting my time and yours!

Guys think about this
Too many guys want to get it the first night and get to know the girl after. How many times has that worked out for you? If you want a woman who will be total honest, faithful, completely yours and is going to make you happy - and make you proud that she is yours and happy that you found her? Why don’t you slow things down a bit, and really get to know her first, figure out where things could lead before you hit the bedroom. Save yourself and her, the messy breakup and the drama that comes with it and the long line of ex’s you’re trying to avoid. Give yourself a chance to see if she shallow, an attention seeker, looking for money; or if she’s funny, loving, fun to be around and if you enjoy spending your time with on a long term basis.



I would like to find someone special who has similar interests/aspirations for the future. I am a very giving, outgoing, romantic, thoughtful person. I'd like to find someone who might appreciate/reciprocate that.
I'm looking for a guy who will treat me well, and embrace me, for who I am,
as I do for him. If this resonates with you then give me a buzz.

I dont like to think of it as a date, to much pressure!! Just something fun and simple that we would both enjoy where we could both feel comfortable just being ourselves.